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May 2021. Being Your Authentic Self.

Universal Message to the World.

Getting Authentic.

Authentic - not false or copied, of undisputed origin; genuine.

Being Authentic

You are not a mistake. The most powerful forces on earth conspired to create you.

What causes us to be inauthentic?

The illusion of our personal separation is very real to us. It’s what our five limited senses tell us all the time. The result of this is that we often adopt and identify with other people’s values, other people’s personality archetypes and other people’s thoughts, beliefs and behaviours only for the sake of gaining acknowledgement, acceptance and love from others. We have practiced doing this for so long we claim them as our identity and believe them to be the true reflection of our authentic selves.

Our deeper true inner beingness or soulself knows the difference and is aware that the universe, which always seeks balance, is sending us reminders of this. An example of this feedback is that it could be experienced as something like depression or sickness. This is to disrupt these inauthentic expressions of ourselves.

Step One. Understanding Inauthenticity and Self-acceptance.

In order to get back to our authentic unique selfness, we need to erase and replace unworthiness with worth, unacceptance with acceptance, unacknowledgement with acknowledgement and a knowingness that we are unique and complete. That is what led us astray in the first place. To boost your personal self-worth, you can watch https://youtu.be/_0cxAwnjmi0

The important realization that must be made is that true authenticity is allowed, it cannot be forced. You ‘BE’ authentic, you don’t ‘DO’ authentic. You need never do anything inauthentic for the sake of gaining acceptance, acknowledgement or love. Acceptance, acknowledgement and love is your birth right and your soulself knows this even when our brain and body forget. The universe also knows this and sends us this feedback because it’s an intelligent benevolent universe that is always seeking out balance and equilibrium. The question to ask is “are we seeing/feeling the deeper truth of the given feedback?”

Step Two. Self awareness and self observation.

Once we have genuine self-acceptance then we can embrace authenticity. It’s paying close attention to why you are doing what you are doing and realizing when you are not being true to yourself and the reason behind it. The why is usually for acceptance as was outlined already. Celebrate this awareness and don’t beat yourself up for it. Lovingly encourage honesty. In healthy relationships ‘vulnerability’ is a super power.

Pay attention to the little nuances in your life that display your authentic beingness. What makes you gut-laugh out loud? What makes you cry quietly? What gives you gooseflesh? What gets you going without external motivation? What lights you up? What gets you hard or your juices flowing metaphorically speaking? What floats your boat? Most importantly what is the reason WHY behind it? Ask yourself ‘what things ignite my passions and why?’ This will point you in the direction of your genuine values. This is self attunement. It’s the grand master plan of the universe to nudge you into better alignment.

Step 3. Finding balance.

We are aware that we are in a realm of duality. We have relative opposites. We just tend to polarize these opposites and see them as separate and disconnected. A big revelation is realizing they are relative, related to each other and in fact neither can exist without the other. We need to look at them as opposite sides of the same coin. Two separate sides but still one coin. An easier example to grasp this analogy would be to look at a rectangular bar magnet. A magnet has two polarities, a positive and a negative at opposite ends. Now if you try isolating those polarities by cutting the magnet in half, what happens? Do you get one separate positive and one separate negative? No, each half becomes its own magnet with its own positive and negative poles. They just cannot be separated. Likewise without good there would be no bad and without bad there would be no good. The idea that poles are separate is an illusion and is a premise that needs to be transcended. There has to be contrast for us to focus on what we desire and there has to be contrast to bring us back into balance and alignment. Without failure there would be no success and without success there would be no failure. We would not know authenticity if we did not know inauthenticity. Contrast is our ally as it allows us the feedback to find balance. Being and feeling successful also means we have outgrown our past desires. That vision is now too small. Nothing fails like success (because we get complacent) and nothing succeeds like failure (because we get motivated.) It is all feedback sent to display, guide and check if we are being authentic to our ever expanding true vision, mission and intentions. It’s not about getting it right all the time because that is not balanced and after a while we would experience no fulfilment. It’s about understanding the balance that sometimes we are going to get it right and other times we are going to get it wrong. It’s about trusting and surrendering and allowing the journey. Remember that choices need never come from a polarized judgement and when you get this, you then align with your deeper, balanced, wiser soulself, which is the larger part of your authentic you.

Quick recap:

1. Know you are whole, complete, enough and worthy. The only acceptance you require is your own. Your reflected worthiness from another is too much responsibility to place on another person, expecting them to provide it for you. Only you are qualified for that.

Watch https://youtu.be/_0cxAwnjmi0

2. Be aware of displaying your own inauthenticity and authenticity and observe it outside of judgement and criticism. Allow, embrace, love and nurture your authentic inner beingness. Note your unique values and idiosyncrasies that define you differently – that’s your superpower and your unfair advantage. It’s what makes you stand out – conformity just gets you lost in the crowd.

3. Everything is related and if observed from a connected perspective, provides the feedback to allow you gain closer balance, alignment to your true intrinsic values and authenticity..

April Muse-letter 2021 - Have You Ever Measured It?

Greetings Success Seekers

We’ve already completed the first quarter of 2021 and the seasons are shifting so it’s important to do a quick quarterly review and measure how far you have shifted too?

To understand why is measuring is important, check out these class quotes.

“That which is measured and reported improves exponentially.” Karl Pearson

You can't manage what you can't measure.” Peter Drucker.

I’ve noticed that optimism and growth is also shifting at the moment, so pull out your goal plan and sees how you are doing. If you haven’t got one already then make one, here’s a simple example just to get you started. Just start, you can always refine and redefine later.

If you notice any improvement, even if it’s small, then give yourself a reward. Treat yourself like you earned it.

It’s so important to keep positive momentum so I’ve listed some cool options:

* The Free Resources page on www.successloops.com has been updated so go and check out the new updates.

* Check back in with ‘Training With Titans’ and follow up on the next training. If you haven’t signed up for these free trainings yet, then take advantage of the wisdoms of Tony Robbins, Dean Graziosi, John Demartini and many more at https://success-loops-mastery.thinkific.com/courses/training-with-titans

* Check out the ‘Services’ page for discounted courses ranging from Relationships to Mindsets to Corporate Culture to Success Strategies.

If there is something else you would like to empower yourself with that I haven’t covered yet, then let me know, I’d love to know what are they?

To Our Collective Success

Warm Regards

Brad Cunningham

March 2021 Muse-Letter. March To Your Own Beat.

This March I encourage you to march to the beat of your own drum. We cannot control our circumstances, we can only control our perceptions and reactions to them. We experienced this first hand properly last year didn’t we? It’s normal to feel powerless when circumstances are beyond our control. I’d like to share a clip with you I made last year portraying three case studies that is so inspiring because they didn’t blame or complain but found solutions to empower themselves.

1 was parliament in Uganda (absolute chaos)

2 was a person called Gracious (started a goat farming initiative)

3 was a person called Manners (physically disabled but watch how he recycles)

https://youtu.be/vucU7d50K74

How inspiring is Gracious and Manners for taking their power back despite being in a poverty ridden country.

I have a similar story. A year or two ago I paid someone upfront to create my website. They took my money and did absolutely nothing. After much blaming and complaining I got stuck in and had a go at creating it myself. Here is my website and it only took me two days to create.

The question is: what is it that you would like to do to uplift, empower, enlighten and inspire?

Check out the ‘Free Resources’ page on my website for free success options or check out the ‘Services’ page for discounted courses ranging from Relationships to Mindsets to Corporate Culture to Success Strategies.

If there is something else you would like to empower yourself with that I haven’t covered yet, then please tell me, I’d love to know what they are?

To Our Collective Success

Brad Cunningham

Feb 2021 Muse-Letter. Romance Or Attunement?

It’s February, the month where so many of us celebrate romantic love. I want to pose the question, how important do you think relationships are, relative to your success and happiness?

It’s interesting to note that ‘Personality and Social Psychology Review’ found after 400 studies that strong relationships are essential to any individual’s prosperity, while disconnection constricts accomplishment. Seems logical doesn’t it?

Now before we jump the gun and start looking at relationships with others, let’s consider home base. How is your relationship with you? Would you date someone who treated you like you do?

We all know the wisdom of the saying “if you don’t love yourself, you cannot love another.” Let’s reverse engineer that. Our partners are often the catalyst of us being made aware that we are lovable and in such way prove we are worthy of loving ourselves and the elation coming from that is euphoric, so we attach to them for this reason and often hold them hostage for that fix. The problem is our partners cannot keep this up indefinitely and after a while things start unraveling.

So it’s not surprising we live in a world where 40% - 50% of all marriages end in divorce, so it begs the question – just how much do we understand about this crazy little thing called love.

Deepest truth be told when we are in a good place we love by default because it feels great by doing that and that is because we are attuned to our natural state.

Let’s dig a little deeper with the statement below:

Romance or Attunement?

We all enjoy romance but that implies that it’s only done with flowers, wine, chocolates and candlelit dinners. There’s nothing wrong with all of those but how about taking it up a notch. How about attunement? Attunement is the emotional and intellectual alignment that exists between couples that comes from being openly present with themselves and each other. It implies them being attuned unto each other and this harmony can be experienced anywhere even when they are apart.

Some more Q & A for you.

Q –What is the state of attunement in your relationship?

Q –How aware are you of the deeper dynamics of intimacy?

Q – Could you empower and deepen your intimate connection and allow your partnership to flourish even more?

Before you answer check out the quote below.

“The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of our relationships” Tony Robbins

The reasoning is simple: the better our self-love, the better our relationships and the better our quality of life we have.

So what can we do to get to this space? Check out the clip

https://youtu.be/NfhAP3h0fBY

Q – Do you want to have a quality relationship that lasts a lifetime that lifts your emotional happiness and positively impacts the quality of your life? If yes then sign up here.

Take your relationships to the next level, spoil your spouse, gift your girlfriend, bless your boyfriend, and pamper your partner as well as yourself this February with some intimate connection.

No amount of money value could ever be placed on empowering a nurturing relationship to last a lifetime, however this February launch offer is available for only $19 if you enroll now.

If you’re still on the fence and unsure of the course quality then take our free offer ‘Training With Titans’ and learn success secrets of the super elite like Gary Vee, Tony Robbins, Dr John Demartini, Dean Graziousi and more.

https://success-loops-mastery.thinkific.com/courses/training-with-titans

To Our Collective Success

Brad Cunningham

Jan 2021 Muse-Letter. A Recent Encounter On Instagram.

I must share an interaction I had with girl on Instagram who direct messaged me and asked me 2 interesting questions.

So I immediately checked out her profile and saw not only was she rather attractive but she also boasted a strong online presence in the coaching field too. (way bigger than mine)

She was responding to a post that I had made regarding love and relationships and a course I was creating and she said it resonated with her but that my IG account didn't clearly demonstrate what I did exactly so she asked two really great questions.

What is my niche and target market?

How did I get started on my journey?

So I'll share my answer briefly but I actually want to pose these same questions to YOU!

I shared that I've been a full time musician for over twenty years and I incubate my melody's for ages and I lovingly agonize over my lyrics and although my music is highly praised it is just way to deep for the commercial market. I write mind expanding music not the mind numbing distraction racket you often hear on commercial radio. I did some close retrospection and introspection to seek my purpose. I had an epiphany where I realized that even before music I was coaching - random strangers would approach me and just share their problems. Fortunately I'm rather intuitive so I would give my council & it was cool to see their response. It wasn't a surprise to see nearly all my lyrics in my music reflect this also. All the dots here point to the empowering, uplifting and inspiring of how I can express my love for humanity. Then I got into live looping and saw how well that could symbolize the cyclical nature of life so I've bridged two passions in a unique way. So that's the journey so far and maybe I still need to niche down more to target my ideal client but I am looking closely to weave more and more of the authentic threads in my life together. Authentic beingness lends itself to genuine fulfillment and that's the best kind of success.

So back to you. Ask yourself the same questions I was asked. Be as transparent and honest with your answers as possible. If you look closely at your life can you see any thoughts, behaviours, feelings, habits and actions over the years that reflect a similar theme? What is it? Where is it pointing? Are you already aligned with it? Are you prepared to share it with me?

Anyone curious enough to want to listen my music can do so at http://www.youtube.com/c/CUNNINGBRAD

And connect with me on Instagram so we can chat also https://www.instagram.com/cunningbrad/

To Our Collective Success

Brad Cunningham

Dec 2020 Muse-Letter. I’m Dreaming Of A Black Christmas.

WHY NOT MAKE BLACK FRIDAY LAST UNTIL CHRISTMAS, ALL COURSE CONTENT FREE FOR 30 DAYS.

Greetings Success Seekers

Considering that this year has been the craziest ever, I’ve decided that we could all use every bit of help we can and even though it’s all of my intellectual property from hours and hours of research and then recording and editing classy content, I’m allowing free access for the next 30 days to all of my content. Starting next year I will be monetizing my courses again, except for the ‘Training With Titans’ as that will always be a free resource, that grows as I will be adding new material as I go along.

So help yourself to these free offers for the next 30 days.

Boost Mind-set with: ‘Crush Negativity in 21 Days’

Think outside of the box, build up your self-worth, deal with conflict, cope with emotional trauma, deepen your relationships and train your mind to focus more on opportunities while squeezing much more happiness and fulfilment into your life. Choose one of the options below.

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or the mini version: ‘Crush Negativity in 10 Days’

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Make Your Workspace a Happy Place with: ‘Create Permanent Positive Company Culture’

In order to make any business scalable, the experts all agree Cultivate Healthy Corporate Culture.

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Learn Secret Strategies of the Super Elite with: ‘Training With Titans’

The pearls of wisdom from top achievers.

https://success-loops-mastery.thinkific.com/courses/training-with-titans

My latest training ‘3 Keys to Sustained Success’

In order to master success you need to master emotions, master procrastination and have a defined strategy

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If you wouldn’t mind leaving a positive rating after taking a training please, as this increases visibility for others. You are welcome to share links if you want to. For the courses that don’t have ratings available, I would value your feedback greatly, let me know how you experienced the trainings.

I’m Brad Cunningham and my intention is to bring valuable strategies and to assist everyone to live an optimized life. I’m addicted to following top entrepreneurs and elite coaches, researching their strategies, taking their nuggets and sharing them. I just want to say thank you for participating.

To Our Collective Success

Brad Cunningham

Nov 2020 Muse-Letter. Your Free Mindset Tutorial.

Your Free Mindset Tutorial

Greetings Success Seekers

Tony Robbins says success is 80% mindset and 20% mechanics. Our ego is primarily set to survival and is always looking out for threats so our mindsets are more negative biased than positive. It’s critical that we balance this out. Please understand this doesn’t mean we must put on our rose tinted glasses and suppress all negativity in our lives, the contrast is there for a reason. Rather just observe objectively without overly attaching extra meaning (judgement) and seek out what positivity could be discovered in hindsight. There is some good in every bad and some bad in every good if you look close enough.

You can boost your mindset with my latest free mini course on Udemy ‘Crush Negativity In 10 Days.’ It’s the skinny version of the ‘21 Day Proactive Positivity Challenge’ and it’s loaded with content that’s invaluable to personal and professional success. By the end of this course you will have been guided to think outside of the box, build up your self-worth, deal with conflict, cope with emotional trauma, deepen your relationships and train your mind to focus more on opportunities as well as squeezing much more happiness and fulfillment into your life… It’s free as a gift to you for the next couple of days so please check it out. If you can leave a positive rating afterwards please as this increases visibility for others. You are welcome to share the link if you want to. Are you ready to prime your mindset and optimize your action-taking strategies for larger success, hit the link below. https://www.udemy.com/course/crush-negativity-in-10-days/

If you are interested in more free trainings like this, then check out the online library. It’s free and it cannot be monetized because I use songs to make the strategies easily accessible for retention and recall. Here is the link to this collection “Training With Titans” it’s the pearls of wisdom from top achievers and it’s constantly being added to so remember to keep coming back for new empowering content.

https://success-loops-mastery.thinkific.com/courses/training-with-titans

I’m Brad Cunningham and my intention is to bring valuable strategies and to assist everyone to live an optimized life. I’m addicted to following top entrepreneurs and elite coaches, researching their strategies, taking their nuggets and sharing them. I just want to say thank you for participating.

To Our Collective Success

Brad Cunningham

Oct 2020 Muse-Letter. Boom’sday Prepping For 2021.

Greetings Success Seekers

In last month’s Septembers Muse-Letter we looked at the pro’s of procrastination with John Assaraf and we deconstructed the process and reconstructed it positively. If you have any hassles with procrastination and didn’t see last month’s post, you can check it out here. https://mailchi.mp/df65a17c96c9/put-the-pro-in-procrastination?e=c14dbb26eb

I know a lot of us have written this year off and cannot wait to start afresh in 2021, which is quite understandable BUT we still have 3 months left to make something count. If you didn’t use lockdown to initiate a side hustle to set up another income stream or learn a new skill or look at scaling your existing business, well it’s not too late. Let’s get a measurable 3 month head start on 2021.

Einstein said it’s not in giving the right answers that measure genius but rather in asking the right questions. Ask yourself the following class questions.

‘What would bring me the desirable change I must have?’

‘What would I love to do to achieve it?’

‘What and who would I need to help make it happen?’

Only three months left so check out the ‘Three Things You Need to Succeed’ here: https://youtu.be/6rc-6M7tRrQ

If you are interested in seeing more trainings like this, then check out the online library. It’s free and it cannot be monetized because I use songs to make the strategies easily accessible for retention and recall. This is an unlimited offer. Here is the link to the free trainings - this collection is titled “Training With Titans” and it’s constantly being added to.

https://success-loops-mastery.thinkific.com/courses/training-with-titans

I’m Brad Cunningham and my intention is to bring value and to help everyone live an optimized life. I’m addicted to following elite entrepreneurs and top coaches and researching their strategies and sharing them.

To our collective success

Brad Cunningham

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